“In recovery, we learn… the more we are focused on controlling and changing others, the more unmanageable our life becomes.” – The Language of Letting Go
Ever wish someone would just be different? Say or do something the way you think is only reasonable to expect? This is the #1 biggest source of trouble for me. Those words or actions (which I disagree with) are the greatest traps for me to feel unhappy. The program teaches me to be aware, close my mouth, sidestep them, turn away, and then head back towards sources of gratitude ASAP. It’s the fastest way to get back to a place where ILML!