“… the more people can become aware without judgement, the more they can change in the direction they desire.” Attitudes of Gratitude in Love
I believe that having good, positive thoughts and attitudes are necessary for me to manifest the destiny I dream of. Judgement can definitely block me from abundance.
Comparing myself to others (better or worse than), gossiping, or even thinking I know better than them is like wearing 100 pound weighted vest — reaching the top of the mountain is way harder.
My sponsor Dan suggested that discerning is more appropriate than judging because it allows me to make healthy decisions without the emotional attachment.
Today, as I open my eyes to all around me, if I find myself in judgement, I’ll recognize what I’m doing, detach from the drama and simply discern whether or not there is some action to take —then take it — provided it doesn’t hurt me or anyone else. This will allow me to get back to a place where I can invite abundance, remembering that I am one of the lucky ones because ILML!
— JamieQ