“What if you made up your mind that from now on, for the rest of your life, you alone would decide how you are going to feel?” – You Can’t Make Me Angry
If this sounds impossible, I can attest that it’s not. Every day I make up my mind to love my life. Over and over again throughout the day I insist upon it. That doesn’t mean that things don’t happen and people don’t say things that hurt or upset me — I am human after all. I’ve learned to, after the initial feeling hits me (sometimes like a locomotive train), make a conscious decision of asking myself how I want to continue feeling. The answer is always: I want to feel great and love my life no matter what!!! Then, by simply accessing and applying the tools I learn from doing the daily deal, the hurt and resentment dissipate, and once again, just like magic, ILML!