“… when my thoughts begin with “He should” or ” She shouldn’t” I am probably in trouble…” Courage to Change 

“… sweep off our side of the street… never trying to tell him what he should do.” – AA Big Book

It’s true for me when they say that most of us are like actors who want to run the whole show. If only people would do as we wished, right? But it’s equally true that, when we live in the solution, get spiritually centered, and work our program, that we stop burning up energy foolishly as we did when we were trying to arrange life to suit ourselves. Today I’m doing the deal, which alters my perceptions, behaviors and attitudes, opening up the door of abundance. As a result, in this moment of now, ILML!