“During the first six months of 1935, I was hospitalized eight times for intoxication. I was moved into another room, where my wife was waiting. She said, “You are going to quit. There are two drunks who have a plan to quit drinking. Part of their plan is to tell the plan to another drunk. This will help them stay sober.” I felt as if I would be a real stinker if I did not listen to a couple of fellows for a short time, if it would cure them. My wife also said I could not pay them even if I had money, which I did not.” — Adapted from the Big Book, Alcoholic #3
This is the essence of our program.
I share my story with others who have suffered like me. This is my experience.
I share what I had to do, and the dedication and commitment I made, and continue to make, to get better. This is my strength.
Then I share what happened as a result of working the program, how my life has transformed and gotten better. How I now love my life. This is my hope.
Then I offer myself, to guide them through the program, at no charge whatsoever. This is my service.
And through this process I’ve tapped into the wonderful, good and loving part of myself, my self-esteem was restored, I found a purpose, I’m actively pursuing it, and… ILML!